Lots has happened since we last spoke. Lots of good things that is. Like really wonderful things. First of all, we got married! It was filled with more love and happiness than I could have imagined. Friends, family, dancing, and lots of happy tears were all part of it. We do not have the official photos yet, but we have been reliving the whole experience through photos of family and friends. I will go into more detail on the wedding in a whole separate post. Just so much to share!
Then, we went on our honeymoon! In all honesty, I was conflicted about going on our honeymoon right away. I knew I wanted somewhere warm, and for late April and early May, that narrowed down our options. I also thought it would be nice to have a staycation and not worry about planning a honeymoon in the midst of planning of wedding. But I am so glad I was convinced otherwise. We got to treat it as something different from a vacation, still riding high from the giddiness of the special weekend. We are not exactly the lovey-dovey type, but we made sure we told as many people as we could it was our honeymoon. I don’t know what sort of reaction I was expecting from people when we told them, but I was surprised at the reactions we consistently got- pure joy....except for our flight attendant but that's another story. Other than her, everyone- male, female, old, young- was genuinely excited for us. A smile would spread across their faces and their demeanor would change to be more accommodating, more caring, more loving. It was surprising and really, really sweet. If only I could bottle all of that positive energy up and keep it for all of the days of our marriage.
Our honeymoon. How did we decide where we were going? Honestly, process of elimination. We’re not the real lounge-on-the-beach-forever type of people, so that ruled out many places. We only had 10 days (including travel), so we didn’t want to waste it on a plane getting halfway around the world. Although I wouldn't mind a trip to Bali one day. Like I mentioned before, I was in no desire of being cold, but I did not want to be sweltering either- especially if I was not near the pool. We don’t have money growing on our backyard trees, so lavish living was out of the question, but we wanted to be comfortable. We also wanted to embark on this new stage of our lives by sharing an experience together, so we wanted to go someplace where neither of us had been. Oh, and the cuisine had to be interesting and desirable- obviously.
So where did we go?! Portugal and Morocco! Or more specifically, Lisbon and Marrakech. We would have loved to venture to other parts of the countries and probably would have if we weren’t honeymooning, but we wanted to allow some time for rest and relaxation and general husband and wife hangout time.
Most of the planning was done in the weeks leading up to the wedding using suggestions from different websites like The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Saveur Magazine, other blogs, and TripAdvisor. I also usually go for the Lonely Planet Pocket guides to tote around with me if I need a little info about a sight or need some general info (like tipping protocol, museum and site hours, transportation guidance). It can be a lengthy process because if you’re like me, you want to make the most of your trip because who knows when you’ll get to visit again?! I personally love this process, and I am fortunate that my husband trusts whatever plans I make. Too many cooks in the kitchen can make planning and committing to places a bit stressful if you know what I mean.
I did take my nice DSLR camera with me, hoping to capture all of the loveliness of Portugal and Morocco, but it was sadly underused. Not only did I grow tired after just one day of carrying it, but I realized that shooting food is a lot different than shooting landscapes. Basically, I have some learning to do in that department. The phone camera was easy to tuck away and pull out and keep safe from any pickpockets. Speaking of which, we felt very safe in both Lisbon and Marrakech even late at night, but like any big city with lots of tourists, pickpockets are rampant. Just use common sense, and everything will be fine!
I was going to do this in just one post, but I’m breaking it down in two parts, so stay tuned for Part II!
Part I: Lisbon, Portugal
I thought I would include some of the highlights- in no particular order- in case you plan to venture to either of these places. It just may save you hours of parsing through reviews and pictures on other sites.
Accommodation
Casa Amora Guesthouse: Like a bed and breakfast, but better. I think I saw photos of their breakfasts on TripAdvisor, and I was sold. But really, everyone at Casa Amora is so friendly and accommodating and the rooms are bright and clean. We showed up late afternoon and were greeted with a glass of port, homemade pastries, local cheese, and a frittata. I knew I had picked wisely. They are eager to give advice and go out of their way to make you comfortable. It is tucked slightly away from the main sights, but we loved how quiet it was because of that. The patio where you eat breakfast is beautiful- like a little secret garden. I want to eat breakfast on a patio like that everyday when I grow up.